Monday, November 30, 2009
Not Me! Monday
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Thursday, November 26, 2009
Count Your Blessings...
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Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Thanksgiving Proclamation
A short history lesson, reminding us of the reason for Thanksgiving...
Following is the 1863 Lincoln Presidential Proclamation - celebrated shortly after Lincoln committed his life to Christ and celebrated while America was still in the midst of its Civil War. It was this proclamation which led to the establishment of our national Thanksgiving holiday.
The year that is drawing toward its close has been filled with the blessings of fruitful years and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the Source from which they come, others have been added which are of so extraordinary a nature that they can not fail to penetrate and soften even the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever-watchful providence of Almighty God.
In the midst of a civil war of unequaled magnitude and severity, which has sometimes seemed to foreign states to invite and to provoke their aggression, peace has been preserved with all nations, order has been maintained, the laws have been respected and obeyed, and harmony has prevailed everywhere, except in the theater of military conflict, while that theater has been greatly contracted by the advancing armies and navies of the Union.
Needful diversions of wealth and of strength from the field of peaceful industry to the national defense have not arrested the plow, the shuttle, or the ship; the ax has enlarged the borders of our settlements, and the mines, as well of iron and coal as of the precious metals, have yielded even more abundantly than theretofore. Population has steadily increased notwithstanding the waste that has been made in the camp, the siege, and the battlefield, and the country, rejoicing in the consciousness of augmented strength and vigor, is permitted to expect continuance of years with large increase of freedom.
No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy.
It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently, and gratefully acknowledged, as with one heart and one voice, by the whole American people. I do therefore invite my fellow-citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next as a day of thanksgiving and praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the heavens. And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to His tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners, or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it, as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes, to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquility, and union.
In testimony wherof I have herunto set my hand and caused the seal of the United States to be affixed.
[Signed]Let us be careful to remember the reason that we celebrate Thanksgiving.
A. Lincoln
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Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Austin's Words
I have been a little "under the weather" this week, so I haven't been able to post as usual. SO...to rectify, I thought I'd post a short video of Austin's newest (as in just yesterday) word! He is slower to use his words (compared to Katie at this age), but he is learning new words every week. The hardest part is getting him to say them when we want him to...
Here are a few of his "first" words and word attempts {grin} at 15 months old:
Ma-Ma (Mommy)
Da-Da (Daddy)
De-uh (Deer)
Bur (Bird)
Ba (Ball)
Ba-Ba (Banana or Balloon - they sound the same right now)
Booo (Book)
Me-el (Milk)
Tan ooo (Thank you)
Baa (Bath)
Ta-Dow (Touchdown)
Baa-bal (Bubble)

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Saturday, November 21, 2009
My Beanie Babies
I just posted on my photography blog about my cute little "beanie babies". Be sure to check it out at http://marshabartonphotography.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-beanie-babies.html.
Sorry for just pasting the link. I don't have time right now to re-post the entire post here. Maybe I can get it up here later :)
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Thursday, November 19, 2009
I Don't Want to Raise Successful Children
"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6
I don't want to raise successful children. That's a shocking thing to read, and a shocking thing for a mother to type. So, let me clarify.
I used to define success according to my child's report card. Good grades and academic achievement would surely equal a good child with great potential in this world. But then several of my children wound up being average students with average grades. Though we carted them off to tutors and spent many a late night at the kitchen table helping them, they remained average. And I remained concerned and frustrated.
One report card day I found myself facedown in the fibers of my carpet crying and wonderi ng, "Where have I gone wrong as a mom?"
I dug into Scriptures. I begged God for wisdom and discernment. I prayed for God's perspective with each of my kids. Finally, one day it dawned on me - what if I simply chose to embrace the natural bent of each of my kids as God's way to protect them and keep them on the path toward His best plans for their lives?
What if my A student needs academic success to prepare her for God's plans while my average to below-average student needs to be steered away from a more academic future? What if my sports star kid needs that athletic excellence for his future assignments by God, but my benchwarmer kid is being protected from getting off course by her lack in this area?
And that's when it finally dawned on me. My job isn't to push success for my kids. My job as a parent is to recognize the unique way God created each child and point them to Jesus at every turn along their journey toward adulthood. Yes, I wan t my kids to learn and thrive and grow up educated, but it's not a flaw in me or them if they don't have straight A report cards and trophy cases full of sports medals.
Proverbs 22:6 says, "Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it" (NIV).
I am challenged to ponder these words, "… in the way he should go." Are we training our kids that the "way he should go" is to chase worldly achievement or to chase God? Whatever they learn to chase as a child, they will chase as adults. Therefore, we must be challenged to honestly assess the way we are pointing them to go.
My daughter, Hope, is one of my average students. She has also warmed many a bench in the sports she's tried, and can always be found hiding on the back row of the stage during school concerts. Using the world's benchmarks for achievement, Hope wouldn't be seen as a child positioned for success. But God…
This past January, my 15 year old Hope, shocked me when she announced she wanted to go to Ethiopia with some missionary friends of ours and live in the remote African bush for the summer. Yes, she may not have trophies and straight A report cards but she does have a heart of gold. And because she's not entrenched in sports and academic pursuits that could have created obligations for her summer, she was free to go to Africa. Free to chase God in a really big way.
One of the first e-mails she sent me from Ethiopia read, "Mom, I've fallen in love with the AIDS orphanage children. They rushed at me when I held my arms out and I tried with all my might to hold all 30 of them at once. I love it here."
Now, don't get me wrong. I do expect Hope to return to her studies this fall, give 100% effort, and finish her high school career having done her very best. She will most likely then go to college. But she probably won't be delivering the valedictorian address or wearing the honors cords and medals. She'll be the on e with a vision of a dying AIDS orphan pressing against her heart ready to chase God's plans to the ends of the earth.
So back to my original statement, I don't want to raise successful children. It's true, I don't. Though Hope's sister coming behind her is an A student and can always be found on the front row of school performances - we don't chase after success for her either. I trust God that she needs those things in her life for the plans He's unfolding in her life. We train with that bent in mind. But, we don't chase it. Just like Hope, we point her in the direction of God at every turn and pray like crazy.
I stand by what I said and I'll say it again, I don't want to raise successful children. Because--- raising God-honoring adults who will set the world on fire for Christ is just so much more rewarding.
Dear Lord, being a mom is a really tough job. Please help me, teach me and show me how to define success for my kids. In J esus' Name, Amen.
Application Steps:
Spend some time specifically praying for your kids today and ask the Lord how you can train them according to the way He created them.
Reflections:
What worries about my kids do I need to ask the Lord for His perspective?
How should I define success for my kids?
Power Verses:
2 John 1:4, "It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us." (NIV)
Matthew 19:14, "Jesus said, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.'" (NIV)
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Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Computer Geek Cuties
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
$20 for 10!
For my "local" readers...
Until November 22 (or until supplies last), you can bring 10 canned items or 10 non-perishable food items to the Bel-Air Mall customer service desk (in front of Sears) and receive a $20.00 mall gift card. What a great way to help local food banks for the upcoming holidays, while getting a little extra spending money for those last few Christmas gifts!
My only suggestion is that you try to make it at an "odd" time of day (not lunch time or around 5pm), unless you want to wait in a pretty hefty line. :)

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Free LeapFrog Board Book
I don't know about you, but we're having to be more frugal than ever this year for Christmas! I've been keeping my eyes and ears open for any kind of good deal that we can use for the upcoming holidays. Here's one quick freebie that I just found for all of you with young children...
If you have any of the leapfrog products (which most of us do), go http://www.leapfrog.com/freebookfamilyfun to register and receive a free educational board book. If you order now, it will probably be here just in time for a gree {FREE} stocking stuffer!!
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Monday, November 16, 2009
Not Me! Monday
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Sunday, November 15, 2009
Escapees!
Unfortunately, a few hours after our outing, Katie started running a very high fever, so we're back to house arrest for a while. Hopefully soon we'll all be well again and can once again ESCAPE (the house, that is)! Until then, I hope you enjoy the new pictures :)
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Friday, November 13, 2009
Overdue...
I really haven't been purposely avoiding my blog this week. Honestly, I have missed having time (and pictures) to post to my blog for my enjoyment {and yours}. So, an explanation and update blog post is much overdue.
After completing Katie's exciting birthday party last Friday night, and enjoying Saturday with my sister and family, my sweet boy started feeling under the weather. We had to miss church on Sunday, and by Monday morning there was no question about it...we were headed to the doctor. Poor guy had severe double ear infections, a sore throat, a head cold, and imerging teeth. Needless to say, I've had a very clingy, cranky, little boy to tend to this week. It's now Friday, and I think he is finally making progress on recovering. And I am ever so ready to have my {normal} Austin back! Unfortunately, my sweet hubby is sick now, so we're taking care of him and praying for him to be well soon, too.
With all of the sickness (and crankiness that goes with it), we haven't been able to do much for the last week. I think we're all stir-crazy from being stuck inside...I know I am! And I don't even have any new pictures that I can post for you right now. But that will be changing very soon, if I have anything to say about it {which I do}.
I have a few new advertising ventures that are in the works, and I am thrilled about them! You will soon see links on here to a few online stores that will be using my photography to advertise their products. I love the thoughts of being able to "trade" products for services that will help advertise both parties!! I'll be posting more as this is underway, but I'm thrilled.
I can't end this 'overdue' post without telling you something funny from our week...
Katie was "cooking" for Mark the other evening. She found a plum to cook, and she decided she needed to put butter on it. So, she asked, "Daddy, do you want to try it?" Mark answered, "I like plums, but the butter is a little over the top." To which Katie promptly replied, "It's okay, Daddy, I can put some butter on the bottom, too."Gotta love that "literal" interpretation from kids...
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Sunday, November 8, 2009
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Under the Sea
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Friday, November 6, 2009
THREE.
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Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Monday, November 2, 2009
Blessing versus Cursing
"From the same mouth come both blessing and cursing." James 3:10
'How many times do I have to tell you?'
'Children are to be seen and not heard.'
'Oh, Johnny is a good boy...when he is sleeping.'
'Sit down!'
'Don't chew with your mouth open.'
'Sit like a lady.'
These sayings will pierce the hearts of young children when they continually hear belittling comments or corrections stemming from anger and frustration. We have heard it takes ten positive comments to refute one negative comment.
God gives us one mouth that we can use to speak blessings or curses over our children. None of us would admit that we intentionally speak curses over our children, but every time we belittle, demean, or speak words of correction out of anger and not love, we are cursing them.
Instead, we can look to w hat the Lord says to us and about us. For example, we are His children, loved and chosen for the purpose of glorifying Him in all we say and do. We are coheirs with Christ, saved, and blessed. We can correct our children with patience, love, kindness, and God's truth. We can remind our children--and ourselves--of these truths with words of blessing versus cursing.
Lord, please guard my mouth to speak words of blessing
to my children. Help me to hear Your words of blessing
and then speak those blessings to my children.
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Peek into our Everyday Joys...
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